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The root of violence

by Alice Miller

several years ago that is scientifically proven the devastating effects of trauma inflicted children will inevitably impact on society. This truth applies to every individual separately and should, if sufficiently well known, lead to fundamentally change our society, and especially blind growth free of violence. The following points illustrate this thesis.

• Each child comes into the world to expand, grow, love, express their needs and feelings.


• In order to develop, children need the respect and protection of adults taking it seriously, loving and helping you navigate.


• When we exploit the child to meet our needs as an adult, when we hit, punish, manipulate, neglect, abuse it, or deceive, with never any witnesses involved in its favor, its integrity will suffer from an incurable wound.


• child's normal reaction to this injury would be anger and pain. But in his loneliness, he would experience excruciating pain and the anger is prohibited. He has no other choice than to contain their feelings, repress the memory of trauma and idealize their abusers. Later will not be any memory of what they have done.

These
• feelings of anger, helplessness, despair, longing, anguish and pain, disconnected from their true origin, they try by all means to express themselves through acts of destruction, which is directed against others (crime, genocide), or against themselves (drug addiction, alcoholism, prostitution, psychic disorders, suicide).


• When we become parents, we often use our own children as scapegoats: persecution, moreover, fully legitimized by society, even enjoying a certain prestige from the moment that is adorned with the title education. The tragedy is that father or abuse their child's mother not to feel what they did to their parents. So sits the root of future violence.


• For an abused child does not become either a criminal or mentally ill need to find, at least once in their life, someone who knows rightly that it is he who is ill, but people around him. It is only in this way that the clarity or lack of clarity on the part of society can help save a child's life or help destroy it. This is the responsibility of those working in the field of social assistance, therapists, teachers, psychiatrists, doctors, officials, nurses.


• So far, the company has sustained and charged adult victims. It has been comforted in their blindness to theories that are in close agreement with those in the education of our grandparents, and who see the child to be false, with an evil mind, a liar, that is attacking their innocent parents or sexual desires . The truth is that each child tends to feel guilty about the cruelty of their parents. And despite everything, still love them, so excuse them of their responsibility.


• only a few years ago, it has been proved, thanks to new therapeutic approaches that traumatic experiences childhood, repressed, are written in the body and unconsciously impact throughout the life of the individual. Furthermore, the computers that recorded the reactions of children in the womb, have shown that the baby feels and learns from the beginning of his life's tenderness, the same way you can learn the cruelty.

• With this view, every absurd behavior reveals its logic, hitherto hidden in the same instant the traumatic experiences come to light.
  Once aware of the childhood trauma and its effects can stop the perpetuation of violence from generation to generation.

• Children, whose integrity has not been damaged, who have obtained their parents' protection, respect and sincerity required, adolescents and adults become intelligent, sensitive, caring and open. Love life and will not need to go against the other, or themselves, let alone suicide. Use their force only to defend themselves. Naturally protect and respect the weak and therefore their own children because they themselves have known the experience of the respect and protection and this memory is not the cruelty of which will be engraved on them.

More about Alice Miller:
http://www.screamsfromchildhood.com/articulos_alice_miller.html
http://www.alice-miller.com/
http://www.tenemostetas. com/2009/08/la-raiz-de-la-violencia-por-alice.html

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On the reality of childhood

Alice Miller studied at Basel in 1953 where he earned his doctorate in philosophy. He practiced his profession as a psychoanalyst in Zurich but quit to devote himself entirely to research on children. In 1986 he received New York Janusz Korczak Award.
Of the 192 UN member countries, only 18 have banned hitting children. In the U.S. there are still 20 states where corporal punishment is allowed in elementary school and about teens. People who can
outraged with these events and are aware of its serious consequences, shall, without any difficulty, all the books he has written Alice Miller. Also understand why the author insists, even at his advanced age, to free the society of his ignorance.
Through his books, articles, brochures, interviews and email responses from readers on its website us shows that maltreatment of children occurs not only unhappy and disturbed children, adolescents and parents who abuse destructive but also a society that functions often disturbed in an extremely irrational.
Thanks to his research on children, Alice Miller has recognized that violence against children leads to global violence that reigns in the world, especially if it starts to hit children in the early years of his life, just at the time when your brain is built. Even if the consequences are obvious outrageous, society does not perceive, let alone take them into account. However, the situation is easy to understand: children have no right to defend themselves against violence from their parents and are forced to suppress and repress natural reactions to aggression from their parents such as anger and anxiety. Just as adults can download these strong emotions about their own children, or in some cases, entire nations.
Alice Miller describes this dynamic in his 13 books and illustrated stories of helping their patients and with the help of numerous studies on the biographies of dictators and well-known artists. The omission of this argument on children by society causes in children, in the familiar dark extremely dangerous behaviors such as brutality, sadism and other perversions we like to call then, in the adult "genetic disorders." It is only awareness of this dynamic enabling us to break the chain of violence, Alice Miller thinks that all his work devoted to this clarification.
In recent years, Alice Miller has developed a concept of therapy, which proposes to suffering people, confronted with his past to find the child's distress were abused, so feel free. Is the child to the parents fear that pushing the all-powerful adults to mistreat children or accept living with serious illnesses, minimizing fully the cruelty of their parents. There are many esoteric propositions spiritual healing promise but in reality its only purpose is to camouflage the terrors experienced in childhood.
Alice Miller thinks that despite the tragic aspect of his discovery, this however provides positive options and upbeat as it opens the door of consciousness, perception of reality of the child while the child's freedom from fear adult and its destructive effects. Their perception of the real experience of the child is no longer linked to that of psychoanalysis. In his view it remains in line with the old tradition that accuses protects children and parents both in theory and in practice. For this reason Alice Miller no longer a member of the International Association of Psychoanalysis. Alice Miller

2008
Translated by Rosa Barrio